When we write about sex, we always mean sex with love from soul. If we are able to talk about our most intimate  „drams”, we are able to live them with the partner. If we fell well with the partner`s exciting sex dreams, we are made to be a couple. If we feel good togethrabout our sexual fantasies, we will be happy together. You want to live all kind of erotic settings, madly in love, making love whereever, whenever and however: to make you happy, to be happy with your partner. Do you want this happiness? Then you are okey.

Up to 70% of all divorces are caused directly or indirectly by a non satisfying sexual life, from wrong sexual attitudes and disinterest in giving the necessary importance to living sex with creativity.

Mind and soul become very rigid if the sexual desire of both partners is not sufficiently satisfied. Our body can easily get sick if we suppress our sexual drive. If you want sex only once or twice a week and always only with a romantic prelude or never with a romantic setting, then your expressions of love is very small. Sometimes an erotic massage or making love smoothly help to sleep, to calm down, to find peace, to relax, to reconcile, to gt rid of nasty thoughts in the mind, to find distance from matters in your daily life, to find strength, to get motivated, to get new drive for daily issues etc. And: borning sex kills love! When living together in a relationship you will have many situations where having desire to make love „ just as it comes”. The source is always LOVE!

You want to feel accepted by your partner and allowed to say „Darling, I need sex now!. If you don`t feel well with that and if you feel unable to say to your partner „ darling, I need sex now”, then with the time serious problem will arise. You need to have an equally high interest in living your sexual desire and to feel well with each other talking about it. If you say „ I want to make love to you now! Or „ I need sex now”- then your partner shall say „ I am here for you!” Your sexual desire shall have higher importance for your partner than his/her „I am not in a mood”!

In other  words say to your partner: „If you are sick, I take care of you. If you want a tea, I bring you a tea. If you are hungry, I cook for you. If you need sex, I make you happy. If you want a romantic evening, I want it too. If you need suport, I give it to you. If you need consolation, I console you. If you want to talk, I am listening. If you feel weak, I give you strength. If you  have concern, I deal with it. If you need a strong shoulder, I am here for you. And all this I do at any time 24/7”

You need to have an equally high interest in living your sexual desire and to feel well with each other talking about it.

Certainly we express an attitude, a state of mind: nobody can always and at any time be ready for the partner`s wishes, desires, and needs.